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How to be more Energetic like a Child? Video Experience

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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">I came across a video which described why Children are <a href="https://www.gretchenrubin.com/happiness_project/2009/11/eight-tips-for-feeling-more-energetic/" target="_blank">more active</a> then adults and was very impressed with that, and so I am sharing those valuable points with your people. Hope you enjoy as I do.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">We find kids are active all the time and they also eat less compare to the adults, but still they are more active then the adults or parents one can say.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Even I wondered many times "Why am I not able to be active like before?" and here is one fine explanation given by a Yogi from India.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">He tells that Children are active because, they don't think about the past worries and wonder about the future, in other word there is no anxiety about the future.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><b>So here is the answer: </b>Try not to think about the past worries and future happenings and live the present, you will be filled with energy which you can use for various good reasons.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Children use thier energy mostly to play, whereas we as adults can use that energy for various reasons like finishing our office or house hold work faster, exercise, helping others, think better and so many other things that you imagine.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">So my Final say is that" Human beings are filled with so many energy but wasted unnecessarily which can rather be used for various constrcutive purposes, instead of sitting and worrying.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">I hope you enjoyed my article on How to gain energy like a Kid... The topic covered here is basically art of controlling your emotions and gaining energy. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">If you want to know more tips on <a href="http://www.fitnessmagazine.com/health/energy-boosters/tips/get-more-energy/" target="_blank">being more energetic</a> like small Children then you read some of the post related with physical exercise and meditation etc. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Post your thoughts as comments below. Thanks everyone..</span></span><br />
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How to be more Energetic like a Child? Video Experience

Get the power like Children: I came across a video which described why Children are more active then adults and was very impressed with that, and so I am sharing those valuable points with your people. Hope you enjoy as I do. We find kids are active all the time and they also eat less compare to th…

30Dec2014

what is happiness in life? - To make others ?

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<b><span lang="EN-GB" style="line-height: 115%;">      A short and sweet story on Happiness in life.  <o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB">Once a group of 50 people were attending a
seminar. Suddenly the speaker stopped and decided to do a group activity. He
started giving each one a balloon.</span> Each one was asked to write his/her name on
it using a marker pen. Then all the balloons were collected and punt in another
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<span lang="EN-GB">Now these delegated were let in that room
and asked to find the balloon which had their names written, within 5 minutes.
Everyone was frantically searching for their name, colliding with each other,
pushing around others and there was utter chaos. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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At the end of 5 minutes, no one could find their
own balloon. Now each one was asked to randomly collect a balloon and give it
to the person whose name was written on it. Within minutes everyone had their balloon.</div>
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<span lang="EN-GB">The speaker began – exactly this is
happening in our lives. Everyone is frantically looking for happiness all
around, not knowing where it is. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Our <a href="http://www.lifehack.org/articles/lifehack/9-tips-in-life-that-lead-to-happiness.html" target="_blank">happiness</a> lies in the happiness of the
other people. Give them their happiness; you will get your own happiness. And
this is the purpose of human life.<br />
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Now one more important thing, one should not run behind happiness, <a href="http://www.pbs.org/thisemotionallife/topic/happiness/what-happiness" target="_blank">Happiness</a> comes to people are happy with what they have got and work towards their need, I would like to provide you a nice quote mentioned by Mr. Rajinikanth which will make you understand better about happiness, need and greed.<br />
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what is happiness in life? - To make others ?

A short and sweet story on Happiness in life. Once a group of 50 people were attending a seminar. Suddenly the speaker stopped and decided to do a group activity. He started giving each one a balloon. Each one was asked to write his/her name on it using a marker pen. Then all the balloons w…

27Aug2014

what you should not do in front of your kids? Grow children properly!!!

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<b>Do not gossip in front of your kids; especially do not talk ill about
your friends like for example when you tell your partner that your friend is a
stringy person. It may lead your kid to bad thinking and even your kid may say
stringy uncle has come, when your friend visits next time to your place. So please
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<b>Avoid threatening or scolding your kids and even if you do so avoid using
words like kill you, break your hand, head etc. Hope you understand why I am
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<b>Some wives would hide something from their husbands and they might tell
their kids to do the same, which is a very insane thing to do and you teaching
them a very bad habit and you are telling them indirectly that is right, so you
are misleading them and they would do the same thing to you in future for sure.<o:p></o:p></b></div>
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<b>Do no bring them money often, especially do not give commission, for
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what you should not do in front of your kids? Grow children properly!!!

What not to do in front of your kids? Do not fight in front of kids. Strictly avoid this. Do not gossip in front of your kids; especially do not talk ill about your friends like for example when you tell your partner that your friend is a stringy person. It may lead your kid to bad thinking and eve…

08Aug2014

How to Improve Interpersonal Communication Skills?

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<span style="font-family: Helvetica new; font-size: large;">6) <a href="http://howtotackleproblems.blogspot.com/2013/11/how-to-improve-interpersonal.html#a6">Talk with examples:</a></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Helvetica new; font-size: large;">7) <a href="http://howtotackleproblems.blogspot.com/2013/11/how-to-improve-interpersonal.html#a7">Show positive body language and gestures:</a></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">So be patience and listen completely to what others say, so that you can give the best reply or suggestion. And Moreover a <a href="http://www.forbes.com/sites/womensmedia/2012/11/09/10-steps-to-effective-listening/" target="_blank">good listener</a> can learn lot of new things from others, as one can always learn from others, no matter the age and gender of a person. </span></div>
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18Nov2013

How to build Self Confidence and think Big

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I would like to start of with a quote which would suggest how important is to be <a href="http://health.howstuffworks.com/mental-health/human-nature/perception/5-ways-to-build-self-confidence.htm" target="_blank">Self confident</a> ?<br />
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<b>" Do not look for role models in life, Instead try to become a role model for others"</b> - This sort of Self Confidence is essential for a person to strive through their lives, Life is all about how we see things in life so see with a big heart and think big.<br />
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There is nothing harm in thinking big, after all you are not doing anything bad like smuggling or killing someone, rather you are just thinking good and big about yourself.<br />
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<b>Steps of Achieve Self Confidence: </b><br />
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<b>1) Recollect success:</b> Remind yourselves the time when you were successful and confident, it will definitely revitalize you.<br />
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<b>2) Dress teak:</b> Dressing neat and clean will make ourselves feel confidently, especially when others say that you dress is nice then it definitely give high priority to the way you dress yourself.<br />
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<b>3) The Attitude of Gratitude:</b> This character in you will loving others more which in turn will help others to love you and when more people starts loving you, your confidence level will shoot up like anything so don't forget to say sorry and thank you.<br />
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<b>4) Speak up: </b>Don't hesitate, only people who have done any mistake will hesitate, so when you are sure that you haven't done any mistake, then why would you hesitate to Speak up in front of others. This is a little difficult step to follow but once you start doing it, then one can notice a certain change in their Self Confidence level.<br />
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<b>5) Be true to yourself and others:</b> A person who is not true to oneself and others will be a person with very low confidence, because he/she is always scared about the world around him that when his/her real nature would come into light, so it is better to be true than to act as if you are a true person.<br />
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b) Stand in front of the mirror and say, how handsome or beautiful am I ? These two steps will make you feel much better, But take attempts to <b><a href="http://www.wikihow.com/Look-Attractive-(Guys)" target="_blank">look nice</a> </b>in the mirror and photograph.<br />
<b><br /></b><b>Question asked by a Member : How to build Self Confidence and achieve in my life? </b><br />
<b><br /></b><b>Personalized Answer: </b>The answer to this question is a little elaborated one as it differs for person to person and also with the circumstances they are in, but no matter what everyone can build self confidence provided if they make regular introspection.<br />
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One should make a review of us regularly to find out our strengths and weakness so that one can eliminate those weaknesses and build the positive aspects of one's personality. Most of the people lack self confidence because of their physical appearance and this is the reason why most of the people fail as well.<br />
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So stop giving much importance of physical appearance and start focusing on your skill set or talent or strengths. One you know which is your area of interest then start believing that you can accomplish with a certain time frame, make all the strategies to attain the goal and don't compare with anyone in the field you choose to excel, because comparing yourself with anyone is like insulting yourself.<br />
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<b>Blueprint  to Build Self Confidence: </b><br />
<span style="color: orange;">Choose your area or field of interest </span>---<br />
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<span style="color: blue;">Make strategies</span>---<br />
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<b>Difference between <a href="http://www.positivityblog.com/index.php/2009/02/20/how-to-build-self-confidence/" target="_blank">self confidence</a> and Egoistic: </b><br />
A highly self confident person can achieve anything in his/her life, so it is very important to be a highly self confident people, but at the same time one should make sure that one should cross the boundary and become arrogant because there is a subtle different between self confidence and Egoistic/ Over Confidence.<br />
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<b>I can do it </b>-  Self Confidence<br />
<b>Only I can do it </b>- Over Confidence or Egoistic.<br />
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I have suggested these six steps after careful consideration and made sure that these steps will definitely help one to build self confidence, as I have mentioned the " Attitude of Gratitude" is important to improve self confidence, please be gratitude enough to leave your comments below to show your gratitude.<br />
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04Nov2013

5 Fundamental Break up Advice for Youngsters

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But, these are some of the best options: Firstly, Avoid going to places, where you both went along together like hotels, parks, temples, even office for that matter. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"> Secondly, Don't listen to sad or romantic songs, it will add fuel to the fire so instead try listening to some fast beat song. Eg:  <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QGJuMBdaqIw" target="_blank">Firework</a> with your friends to forget everything.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Yeah, talking about friends, they are the best medicine during the time of breakup. Take your best pals to some far destination and try spending some 1 week to 10 days of time which would make you much more comfortable.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><b>3) Don't ever regret:</b> There would someone telling you after your break-up that you should have though twice before doing so, Don't just listen to their words after you made the decision.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><b>4) Understand the Truth:</b> Please understand the fact, that it will definitely take some time to come out of the dreadful situation if you have truly loved someone, If you are clear with this point then the time of recovery is faster than you expect.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Remind yourself that in your previous occasion someone very close to you have passed away and are you still thinking of him/her and feeling bad for it everyday, I am sure No. "Similarly this day also would be a forgotten day so go forward with positive mindset".</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">If you follow the above five steps after Breaking up,  I am sure the time consumed to come out of the painful situation will be much faster than you think and will help you to lead a better and happy life ever after. Thanks once again.</span></div>
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