I would like to start of with a quote which would suggest how important is to be Self confident ?
" Do not look for role models in life, Instead try to become a role model for others" - This sort of Self Confidence is essential for a person to strive through their lives, Life is all about how we see things in life so see with a big heart and think big.
There is nothing harm in thinking big, after all you are not doing anything bad like smuggling or killing someone, rather you are just thinking good and big about yourself.
Steps of Achieve Self Confidence:
1) Recollect success: Remind yourselves the time when you were successful and confident, it will definitely revitalize you.
2) Dress teak: Dressing neat and clean will make ourselves feel confidently, especially when others say that you dress is nice then it definitely give high priority to the way you dress yourself.
3) The Attitude of Gratitude: This character in you will loving others more which in turn will help others to love you and when more people starts loving you, your confidence level will shoot up like anything so don't forget to say sorry and thank you.
4) Speak up: Don't hesitate, only people who have done any mistake will hesitate, so when you are sure that you haven't done any mistake, then why would you hesitate to Speak up in front of others. This is a little difficult step to follow but once you start doing it, then one can notice a certain change in their Self Confidence level.
5) Be true to yourself and others: A person who is not true to oneself and others will be a person with very low confidence, because he/she is always scared about the world around him that when his/her real nature would come into light, so it is better to be true than to act as if you are a true person.
6) Admire yourself:
a) Take pictures of yourselves and tell to yourself that you are handsome or beautiful.
b) Stand in front of the mirror and say, how handsome or beautiful am I ? These two steps will make you feel much better, But take attempts to look nice in the mirror and photograph.
Question asked by a Member : How to build Self Confidence and achieve in my life?
Personalized Answer: The answer to this question is a little elaborated one as it differs for person to person and also with the circumstances they are in, but no matter what everyone can build self confidence provided if they make regular introspection.
One should make a review of us regularly to find out our strengths and weakness so that one can eliminate those weaknesses and build the positive aspects of one's personality. Most of the people lack self confidence because of their physical appearance and this is the reason why most of the people fail as well.
So stop giving much importance of physical appearance and start focusing on your skill set or talent or strengths. One you know which is your area of interest then start believing that you can accomplish with a certain time frame, make all the strategies to attain the goal and don't compare with anyone in the field you choose to excel, because comparing yourself with anyone is like insulting yourself.
Blueprint to Build Self Confidence:
Choose your area or field of interest ---
Focus ---
Make strategies---
Do it with a passion---
Don't compare yourself with anyone else---
Don't give up---
Be Positive---
Difference between self confidence and Egoistic:
A highly self confident person can achieve anything in his/her life, so it is very important to be a highly self confident people, but at the same time one should make sure that one should cross the boundary and become arrogant because there is a subtle different between self confidence and Egoistic/ Over Confidence.
I can do it - Self Confidence
Only I can do it - Over Confidence or Egoistic.
I have suggested these six steps after careful consideration and made sure that these steps will definitely help one to build self confidence, as I have mentioned the " Attitude of Gratitude" is important to improve self confidence, please be gratitude enough to leave your comments below to show your gratitude.
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" Do not look for role models in life, Instead try to become a role model for others" - This sort of Self Confidence is essential for a person to strive through their lives, Life is all about how we see things in life so see with a big heart and think big.
There is nothing harm in thinking big, after all you are not doing anything bad like smuggling or killing someone, rather you are just thinking good and big about yourself.
Steps of Achieve Self Confidence:
1) Recollect success: Remind yourselves the time when you were successful and confident, it will definitely revitalize you.
2) Dress teak: Dressing neat and clean will make ourselves feel confidently, especially when others say that you dress is nice then it definitely give high priority to the way you dress yourself.
3) The Attitude of Gratitude: This character in you will loving others more which in turn will help others to love you and when more people starts loving you, your confidence level will shoot up like anything so don't forget to say sorry and thank you.
4) Speak up: Don't hesitate, only people who have done any mistake will hesitate, so when you are sure that you haven't done any mistake, then why would you hesitate to Speak up in front of others. This is a little difficult step to follow but once you start doing it, then one can notice a certain change in their Self Confidence level.
5) Be true to yourself and others: A person who is not true to oneself and others will be a person with very low confidence, because he/she is always scared about the world around him that when his/her real nature would come into light, so it is better to be true than to act as if you are a true person.
6) Admire yourself:
a) Take pictures of yourselves and tell to yourself that you are handsome or beautiful.
b) Stand in front of the mirror and say, how handsome or beautiful am I ? These two steps will make you feel much better, But take attempts to look nice in the mirror and photograph.
Question asked by a Member : How to build Self Confidence and achieve in my life?
Personalized Answer: The answer to this question is a little elaborated one as it differs for person to person and also with the circumstances they are in, but no matter what everyone can build self confidence provided if they make regular introspection.
One should make a review of us regularly to find out our strengths and weakness so that one can eliminate those weaknesses and build the positive aspects of one's personality. Most of the people lack self confidence because of their physical appearance and this is the reason why most of the people fail as well.
So stop giving much importance of physical appearance and start focusing on your skill set or talent or strengths. One you know which is your area of interest then start believing that you can accomplish with a certain time frame, make all the strategies to attain the goal and don't compare with anyone in the field you choose to excel, because comparing yourself with anyone is like insulting yourself.
Blueprint to Build Self Confidence:
Choose your area or field of interest ---
Focus ---
Make strategies---
Do it with a passion---
Don't compare yourself with anyone else---
Don't give up---
Be Positive---
Difference between self confidence and Egoistic:
A highly self confident person can achieve anything in his/her life, so it is very important to be a highly self confident people, but at the same time one should make sure that one should cross the boundary and become arrogant because there is a subtle different between self confidence and Egoistic/ Over Confidence.
I can do it - Self Confidence
Only I can do it - Over Confidence or Egoistic.
I have suggested these six steps after careful consideration and made sure that these steps will definitely help one to build self confidence, as I have mentioned the " Attitude of Gratitude" is important to improve self confidence, please be gratitude enough to leave your comments below to show your gratitude.
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Very important advices. So, in order to attain your goals, follow them step by step!
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