How to Tackle Wife or Husband for Spouse Relationship

Easy ways to have better husband and wife relationships

This blog is about how to tackle wife or husband relationships or to have a better marriage relationship with your life partners, so as to have a better relationship with your life partner.This article would suggest some feasible steps for you to have a peaceful family life as it is very important to maintain a good relationship with your spouse because it won't just affect your personal life but also your social and professional life. So please keep your mind open to learn some very simple steps to tackle problems with your better-half. 

        "Forget all the reasons why it won't work and believe the one reason why it will".

              7 best ways to tackle wife or husband problems:

1) Belief: This is the first and foremost aspect of every relationship, before going into marriage or any kind of commitment each one of you should believe in each other that they can lead a happy life no matter what the present situation is. Nothing is permanent in life so the partners should be open and ready to face the change together, because in most cases one of the partners in ready to change and the other doesn't want to so  believe each other in changing situations of life. 

Solution or tip: Changes may pertain to financial changes, professional or job change, character or attitude change, physical changes etc, for example after marriage your financial status might come down so believe that you can lead a happy life even with lesser money, learn to manage by  planning your budget. Some physical changes,  your husband might lose his hair and become bald, learn to accept it by seeing the inner beauty, these are some of the ways you can tackle changes in your relationship.

2) Ego-clash”:  This is one common problem in many relationships and the percentage of split is more than 1.3 per 1000 people all over the world when it comes to divorce and the main reason being ego or self-worth. One thing people should remember is that being individual is not relationship rather adjusting with the other individual is relationship, so throw away self- esteem and when there is ego love is dead and buried so make sure you love each other so much that you Ego is killed and buried that’s the easiest way to handle Ego.

Solution or tip: The best way to tackle Egoistic problems is to “Love each other more”.

3) Discuss and spend time: People are so busy nowadays that they don’t get time to meet and greet each other which is so pathetic. Partners should discuss and spend time together to know more about each other, know their present mindset; this also helps in planning your future in terms of savings, kids, education etc.

Solution or tip: Try to eat together as a family where you can discuss a lot, bed is the best place to share your happiness or sorrow so lie on your spouse and share your emotions and  feelings for each other.

4) Be loyal: This is another important aspect of a good relationship, people are just married but they are not committed because there is no loyalty among each other. Make sure that you give her/him the first priority, listen to what she/he says and be a counselor to them, so if your partner face any problem, he/she should first run at you to share so much is the freedom and space you should give your partner to make her/him loyal to you.

Solution or tip: Buying gifts often, appreciating their good work in front of others, say “ I love you often”. The goodness of saying " I love you" can only be felt, so to make you understand that I am just attaching a short story: Husband and wife Jokes:

There was a group of women gathered at a seminar on how to live in a loving relationship with your husband.

The host asked the women gathered at the seminar, 'How many of you love your husband?'

Almost everyone raised their hands.

Then they were asked, 'When was the last time you told your husband you loved him?'
Some women answered today, some yesterday, some didn't remember..

The women were then told to take their cell phones and send the following text to their respective husband: I love you, sweetheart.
Then the women were told to exchange phones and read the responding text messages.
Here are some of the replies:

1. Eh, mother of my children, are you sick?

2. What now? Did you crash the car again?

3. I don't understand what you mean?

4. What did you do now? I won't forgive you this time!!!

5. ?!?

6. Don't beat about the bush, just tell me how much you need?

7. Am I dreaming? ???????

8. If you don't tell me who this message is actually for, you will die today...!!!

9. I asked you not to drink anymore!!

and the best one

10. Who is this?

so what do we understand is simple, when you love just say it from your heart everyday and that it will make a whole difference. " It is both for the husband and wife"

5) Forgiveness and enjoyment: Try to forgive their mistake and admit your mistakes these are best possible things you can follow to have a sound relationship. Enjoying and sharing jokes or a lighter moment is very important, life is not all about money, parenting, responsibilities. If you don’t make fun in relationship then there would be a better person to do that and you cannot blame him/her for that mind you, because you fail to do that.

Solution and tip: Being intimate or to have sexual intercourse frequently can be good idea. There are many good reasons to have sex frequently.

6) Respect: We are in a world where both men and women are treated equal but still in many cases it is not followed because either of you earns more than you partner. So relationship is nor measured in monetary terms, rather is measured by the love for each other, so respect each other always.

Solution or tip: “Give them the space they require, space here refers to the freedom”.You know better that only when you give respect, you get it back, Don't you?.

7) Being Empathetic: This is one of the best ways to handle spouse or husband wife relationship that is being empathetic. Stand in the shoes of your better-half and try to understand from their perspective which would definitely  give solutions of lot of problems. we keep talking about our own problems because our problem is the biggest problem in the world so listen to to your spouse.

Solution or Tip: Speak with the women whom you are very close to, may be your mother, sister or a very close friend from whom who can understand their personal problems or the best thing is talk to your partner, which I would reckon.

Hope you like my article about making better relationship with your spouse, and please give your feedback by commenting or contacting me via email: navaniranjanbtw@gmail.com. Thank you

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